Boyfriend and girlfriend culture is a thing that we have been born into and easily accept.   " I like you, you like me. GREAT let's be bf and gf."   This relationship gives the girl and guy a false sense of ownership and it...

I can not tell you how EXCITED I am that the sun is finally coming out to stay! Going through a winter season on top of quarantining is NOT what's up! I need LIGHT! The sun is so vital to a person's health and mood!...

Hiiii queen!! OMG I MISSED YOU! How have you been doing during this quarantine? What a crazy year it has been.  Soooo much has happened in just this one year and I can't wait to tell you about it. Trust me, you are going to...

Its seems so easy. If you want to have sex then just use a condom or better yet protect yourself from pregnancy by getting on birth control. That way if you forget a condom at least you wont have to worry about getting pregnant. Simple...

I'm NOT okay. And I have learned enough in life to know that it's okay to not be okay. I have been a little silent these past few weeks because I'm trying to deal with grief that I never saw coming. The racism and police...

We often hear about sexual grooming when it comes to sex trafficking or men trying to lure young children in to have sex with them but have you ever thought about it happening in your relationships? What's really happening when he grabs your booty or...

Hey queen! Do you desire to worship God? Well how does one worship Him? Anytime we think of worship we automatically think of a song playing and our hands in the air. That's great and a great way to express your heartfelt devotion to Him...

I use to sneak boys over to my parent's house and it started when I was a freshman in high school. It all began the night I saw my mom laying in a hospital bed because of domestic violence. I believe that night broke me...

Heyyyyy girrrrl!!!  HAPPY NEW YEAR...in March lol This is my first blog post of the year and it is long overdue but yet right on time. Queen! How are you? I have missed our girl chats. I hope you have too. So tell me, how...

Bloom where you are planted. I have a wall of encouragement with this statement in the middle of it all. I often have to look at this saying and remind myself to simply stay planted. Sometimes life can seem quite challenging to handle and the...

Being wanted by a guy, especially the guy you like may sometimes feel like a dream come true. For someone to show you special attention makes you feel chosen in more ways than one. I mean hey, what girl doesn't want to be wanted and...

Hey girl hheeeeeeyyyy! I just want to tell you thank you for being a faithful reader/ watcher (lol) on this blog. I know there have been a couple of weeks past ( I blog every other Monday) without any new content and that is due...

Have you ever been in a situation and wanted to change your mind last minute? I have been in a few situations like that myself and there is one in particular that I just can't pass up telling you about. Feeling the pressure to perform...

Are you in a relationship and you know you shouldn't be? My last relationship lasted 4 years... yes 4 years too long and I knew I was not supposed to be in it. I stayed out of comfort and fear. I stayed because I didn't...

Are you in need of some encouragement right now? As I play this video back I realize that i'm really talking to MYSELF! Sometimes I will get words and record them and i’m the main one in desperate need of it. But I want to...

Sex is such an amazing act. There are so many factors that come into play when it comes to sex that the mind can't even begin to understand it all. God knew this when he created it. It's so huge, so big, that he knows...

Masturbation is such a touchy subject ( pun intended ). It's so touchy that many of us rarely if ever find ourselves talking about it. I mean, when was the last time you and your family or friends had a conversation about masturbation over dinner?...

"Sex! You can do it when you want with whoever you want!" Right?! That's our attitude towards sex and that was my attitude for years until I noticed that Sex + my life = overdraft after overdraft. It just wasn't adding up! Sex feels good...

Have you ever went a long time without food and was starving to eat? I have! It's not a good feeling. During those moments you feel like death is around the corner and any kind of food you see starts to look good to eat....

The heart of a single woman needs to be reminded that her life revolves around soooo much more than a relationship with a guy. The sooner she sees single hood for what it really is, the sooner her life, your life,  will begin to fill...

This is the final week of this amazing talk I have been having with my sister. This week we are talking about how she moved on from being a single mom to married with 3 kids and the importance of being picky when it comes...

Hey ladies! We are in the middle of a conversation I had with my sister as we talked about her life as a single mom. If you have not checked out part 1 of this much needed convo, girrllll you betta get on it lol...

Being a single mom is tough! I know a little about that life because I was raised by one. Being a parent is a life change in itself but having to take on the responsibility of 2 parents is never the ideal situation. Some people...

What up ladies! I so hope you enjoyed 3 Things to LOVE About Being Single! This week we are talking about the not so great parts. With life comes struggles, and being single is no exception. Check out 3 things that can be a struggle...

When was the last time you were honest with yourself? Let me ask you this question; are you really enjoying life as a single young woman (not married)? Or are you constantly worried about the next phase in life, your relationship status and when it...

"R.E.S.P.E.C.T, find out what it means to me!" Wait, what does it mean?  We hear this word all the time and even scream it out when we feel "disrespected". But how many of us really know what it is or what it looks like?  I...

Did you know that you have an enemy? No, i'm not talking about that girl who mean mugged you or them haters that talk about you but yet smile in your face. I'm talking about the devil, the one who is the mastermind behind all...

Do you love going to amusement parks? I do! Once you gain access, you can go wild, laugh it up, and ride all the rides over and over.  You have the time of your life, and when you go inside, you can pretty much do...

Have you ever been out in public and a guy walks up to you, asking you for your number? What is your response? Do you give him your number? Are you just happy that someone asked you out? I have been in situations like that....

Happy New Year queens! I want to start this new year right and what's better than some young woman empowerment? I know some of us didn't start the best way coming into 2019. In fact, there are some who have started this year off with...

Hey you! I hope you have been enjoying this dating series so far! There are so many gems for you to cherish and to help you protect and prepare your heart for the right relationship that you are created for. As of now, SHE Abundantly…

"Girl, if you like him, then go out with him. If you think he is cute, then just give him your number. Get into a relationship with him while you are at it. It's cool!" This is what our dating culture teaches us, to just...

How many times have you heard this, "I don't need a man, I can do this by myself, I am mother and father, men aint..." Well you get my drift! There is a common theme in the heart of women across the globe that they...

When you find out that a guy is married what do you do? Does that stop you from talking to him or fuel you even more to go after him? I mean, if he is married he clearly has some qualities that you desperately desire...

Have you ever found yourself using your body to attract a guy? You are not alone. From my clothes to my social media post, I would use my body to get the attention of guys. I mean that's how you do it right? What I...

Last week we talked about predators and how they come in to take from you. This week I want to share with you the #1 trick that predators use to get what they want...you! You may have fell for this game before and never even...

A predator is not always an animal in the wild looking for his next meal. He can also be the very one in your face trying to talk to you, or even in a relationship with you right now. I have faced a few predators...

Ooh girl he is cute! I wonder if he has a girlfriend. How come he's not trying to talk to me? I'm about to slide into his DM's. I need him to notice me! I cant wait anymore, i'm going after what I want. How...

We are all very familiar with a covering. When there is a storm outside, the first thing you do is run for shelter or pull out an umbrella hoping you make it to your destination without getting wet. We cover and protect ourselves in so...

Dating sometimes feels like you are going to war. You never know what’s ahead of you or what will be thrown your way. We clearly need guidance and insight! Who better to go to then the one who knows everything about relationships! When I let...

Hey ladies! Today is the start of a brand new series on dating. So many of us ladies go through so much unnecessary pain for the sake of #RelationshipGoals, and it let me tell you, there is nothing cute nor fun about a broken heart....

Hey Queen! Do You follow SHE Abundantly on YouTube? If not, click Here to subscribe. Sometimes I post videos there that don't make it as a blog post here, but I want to make sure this video doesn't miss your eyes. How do guys treat...

It's very common for a young lady to accept any guy that approaches her, settling for any attention she can get! Often times this stems from never being chosen before, especially from her father. The one man who is suppose to chose her all the...

Do you label yourself as a B!%@#? Do you let others call you a B!%@#? How does it make you feel when you hear that word? To some people, it's just another word and to others it's even a good word, one that you greet...

Who loves free samples?? This girl! I have a feeling you love them too. I mean, who doesn't? Especially free food. You get to taste different stuff with no cost and if you don't like it, you can simply...trash it! Free samples are GREAT, but...

Unfortunately it's not unheard of that guys pressure girls to give up their body for sex. In fact I know that pressure all to well. I realized that growing up as a young girl and now young woman, I believed that my voice didn't carry...

When you hear "first love", who do you think of? Your boyfriend? The first guy you kiss? Maybe it's your dad. A first love holds a position in your heart that can never be replaced. It follows you in thought and desire for the duration...

Hey ladies! Welcome back to this amazing chat on the best love you will ever have. This week we are talking about one of the best characteristics of this love. This characteristic has changed my life in the best way and I am forever thankful...

Have you ever thought that the one you loved, will always love you back? Have you ever loved someone and thought that you will never stop loving them? Only to find out that the love you were experiencing was just a temporary as your next...

"If you don't do this, then I won't do that!" How many times have we heard that? We maybe have even said it a few times as well. Now let's not get love confused here. Love is to give up your selfish desires for the...

We always hear that sex equals love! I mean almost every r&b song talks about making love and when it does, we immediately think of sex. So far we have talked about what love is and how beneficial it is... but illegal sex actually falls...

Hey ladies! Did you enjoy part 1? Is love what you have always thought it was? Let me guess, true love is even better than what you thought, right? We left off with the definition of love that you will never forget and how to...

Love! The 4 letter word that everyone says but only few know what it is. How many times do you use the word love in one day? "Oh I love those shoes! "Ooh I love your hair"! Or how about this one, " I love...

Hey ladies! We have learned so much these past few months on learning our self worth and the fact that we are not girlfriends. I want to continue on this road with ...dating and preparation. A few years ago a friend sent me a teaching...

How come guys are not trying to talk to me? I mean, am I ugly? Is there something wrong with me? Do I need to do more? Show More? Look more available? Maybe I need to be more like what guys like! Okay okay, at...

How many of us ladies have said "I want to be married" or "I can't wait to be married". You can't see it but my hand is raised! I have had my share of fantasies just like the next girl. Many of us have already...

Do people say you look like your mother a lot? How about this one:  "You act just like yo momma, and you talk like her too." Oooh genetics, so cool and complicated at the same time.  Where we come from and even who we come...

Hey ladies! I hope you enjoyed SA's previous blog post, Click ->  You Need This to Overcome Sexual Sin! Pt. 1 . I have learned that to be successful at anything, you can't do it alone.  With sin, especially sexual sin, it can bring one a lot...

I just LOVE telling all my business just so the person next to me can know that they are not the odd ball, that we all have way more in common than we think and to make any religious people VERY UNCOMFORTABLE.  We succeed by...

Oh the world of dating! To be honest, not many know what they are doing. They end of getting hurt or hurting the other involved in some way and then go through the whole entire process with a totally different person. The cycle continues! I...

So many people chase money, fame recognition, status and it can cause you to feel like you are missing out, or if you don't have what they have then you are not worth anything! People can make you feel so bad, less than dirt. Sometimes...

What's the one thing that every young girl needs in her life? That go to pair of shoes? The best hair product ever made? Oooh ooohh what about that bomb dress that you see the girls wearing on Instagram? Naw that's not it! It's something...

If you have not checked out topic #3, you can check it out here -> Why You Should Not Do this Permanent Thing in a Temporary Relationship! Girls Let’s Talk About Sex! Topic #3 Hey ladies. I have another installment of the video series "...

If you have not already, check out topic #2 in this series on sex We Had Sex & Now I Can’t Live Without Him! Girls Let's Talk About Sex. Some how girls start training at a very young age to learn to nurture and care...

Young woman I want to empower you right now! If God has already set you up (before the earth was even created) to be a wife, then you are a wife, point, blank, period! You are not created to be a girlfriend, baby momma or...

Hey Hey SA readers! It's time to highlight another SHE Abundantly YouTube Video! By the way, if you have not subscribed on YouTube then what in the world are you waiting on?? Subscribe HERE!   If you could, would you physically change your own body...

Boy…girl…both? Wait, what am I? Who am I?  I see one thing but I feel like another. There must have been a mistake!

If you have not already, check out topic # 1 in this series on sex. So You Think You’re a Virgin? Girls, Lets Talk About Sex! Topic #1 Have you made a decision to have sex with a guy and now you feel like you...

Hey faithful SA readers! It's that time again, time to get some truth that will transform your way of thinking and prayerfully your entire life. I just love sharing all my personal business ( LOL), and this time is no different. In my search for...

Social Media, a wonderful invention, a way to connect with so many people across the world, a way to get a message out to the masses. Social media can do so many things, I mean, it can LITERALLY change your entire life.

Hey Ladies! I have decided to start a new video series. I talk about sex a lot. I love to educate and talk about the real deal because so many ladies don't have a clue about it ( as I didn't know as a young...

Hey ladies!!! New Video Alert I wrote about this topic awhile back and I was led to make a video about it. For A Good Man Vs. A God Man Pt. 1  Click Here  How many of us have ever been in a relationship with...

What’s good SA followers! I am so EXCITED to tell you what’s going down for us queens. You do not want to miss out on this.

As I promised, here it is, part 2! To keep it all the way 100, I have thought over and over on if I should even share this video in its entirety. I thought things like "is it really going to help any one? Is...

I love to glean from other women who have the same Holy Spirit as me 🙂 If I am going to be online, on social media, why not make sure that what I am allowing myself to see and hear is nothing but the good...

Have you ever wanted something that you knew was just NOT good for you? Of course you have: that cookie, them doughnuts, all that ice cream lol But what about when it comes to a person, yes a man/ relationship? What did you do about...

Merry Christmas and Happy NEW year to all of my wonderful SA readers. I just have to tell you that I love you, no foreal. I am so grateful for you because by your engagement in this content, it makes my purpose on this earth...

For the life of me I could not figure out why I kept dreaming about this one particular guy. But soon enough my eyes were open and it all became clear as day. Find out out jut exactly what I am talking about. You REALLY...

What up SA readers! I hope that you are doing oh so good.  This week I wanted to share yet another personal vlog with you all. I went back and forth on whether I should upload this video you are about to watch or another...

As we grow as young women its a must that we learn to see ourselves as God intended us to. I would spend so much time on YouTube trying to perfect my outer self only to realize that I was trying to be the best...

Part 3 -> I’m Single and I’m Missing Out!!! Purpose Pt. 3 Purpose is the goal of life! I remember the encouragement I heard from Priscilla Shirer as I was watching one of her videos when she said what ever the enemy tries so hard to...

Do I really need to go to church? This is a popular question that i’m sure you have asked either in your head or to someone one else. I have asked the same question and can I be totally honest with the answer?

Hey faithful SA blog readers. As you may have noticed, new blog post are now posted every other Monday as it's beneficial to me at this point. I encourage you to come back EVERY Monday and check out the countless blog post and videos here that...

Inspiration Maaaan I had soooooo much fun this past week. Some how the people that inspire me, I mean truly breathe life into me , find their way to ole Kansas City. I went to see such a real cool dude in concert, His name…

VIDEO ALERT! Sometimes its scary to talk about the things not commonly shared but we only destroy ourselves when we keep things hidden. As you watch I pray that God speaks to you on many levels. Stay Encouraged.

VLOG alert! VLOG alert VLOG alert! I'm going to just go with the flow." "I'm going to just see where this takes me." " This is just a casual kind of thing, no pressure, if we hit it off then cool if not then cool...

Its so easy to find ourselves looking for self worth in all the wrong places. We all want to be associated with the greats right?  That's becasue deep down inside we are looking for power and worth. Some find it in money, other people, cities...

I know we hear this often from almost every woman's mouth and i'm sure we have said it for ourselves, " I want a good man". But did you know that even good is considered settling? Confused? Don't worry, clarity is coming your way, Keep reading! Romantic...

Let me just say that I am SOOOOOOO excited about this tour! They came to Kansas City last year and it was just amazing! I just love the many different art forms that God has given us to express ourselves. Music, writing, dance, spoken word,...

My purpose in life is to mentor young women and a huge part of that is talking about sex! I always talk about it because it is so common in the world to think that sex is everything and you must do it to be...

Who is Jesus? Who are we in relation to Jesus? Why do we need Jesus? This is explained in 4 minutes by one those dope artist that builds the Kingdom, Propaganda. Press Play and be changed      

VLOG ALERT! Yea you don't want to miss out on this one!!        

Freedom! Thank you God for those who fought just so we could be free in this country. But also,  remember that God shed His blood first so that we can be free! Don’t pass this up because although we can be free physically we can…

PEOPLE PEOPLE PEOPLE! Most of our issues seems like it has to do with people! They did this, ugh they did that, she didn’t do this, they get on my nerves! Have you ever just flat out said” I DON’T LIKE PEOPLE!” Yea me too!…

NEW VLOG ALERT! What are you waiting for? Press play!

Part 1 Click HERE Homosexuality should never be something to be afraid to talk about. People are so quick to jump and ask people what they think about it but when was the last time you have stopped and asked God about His views and...

Pt. 1 ->  SHE Abundantly Fashion | Holy Breast & Booty | Mature Audience Only! VLOG THOT= That Hoe Over There! This is a very disrespectful label and who wants this label on them??? Some girls actually dont mind it...wait what??? I don't even use...

Go hard or go home! It’s easy to try and barely make it by, c+ is passing right? As long as I can make the room look clean then I’m good. I mean, nobody knows that all I did was stuff everything under the bed…

Hey SA readers! SA will be back next week with some great stuff coming your way. In the mean time take this life lesson to heart! For more of good stuff like this follow SHE Abundantly on Fb, Instagram and Twitter 🙂

May is Mental Health Awareness month and I recently took a mental first aid class and it was amazing! I learned so much and it just really opened my eyes to the things that many people struggle with. Many things talked about I could totally...

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/6-things-to-Remember-about-your-Mother.mp3 That mother and daughter relationship can be something else. You bump heads more than you would like, momma just wants whats best for you but sometimes you just don't see it that way! My relationship with my mother has been a journey full of...

We live in a a world where women and girls feel they have to give there bodies away in sex or create a whole new body to be beautiful or to be loved. I believed this to be true once, but it’s not true. God had…

I’m sure you have seen a rainbow in the sky. You see it depicted in many places and maybe for a few different reasons but do you know what the true meaning of a rainbow is? Find out 🙂

I don't have enough money to pay my bills! I am stuck at this dead end job! I'm in this relationship that is hurting me and I feel there is no way out! I am a single mother with no career. My close loved one...

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/Life-after-Sex-the-after-math-addition.mp3 Young ladies have given their virginity away for many reasons. Maybe they thought that's what love was, it was the popular thing to do or that's what makes you a woman. Whatever the reason may be, there is life afterwards. To think that things...

When I was a little girl I found myself kissing girls and eventually went from kissing to other things. I didn't know who created me, who God was or what his design was for sex  and marriage. When we don't know our Father's voice  (God)...

We have all lied and for many reasons. It could have been to save self from shame and  embarrassment, to get out of trouble and…well, I think those are the main reasons why people lie. Oh, some people lie just because the sun is out…

As we grow as young women we develop certain characteristics about ourselves that make us who we are. Our character is how we respond  to situations every time or basically what we have allowed in our hearts. There are so many examples out there of…

This week is spring break for many here in the Kansas city, Ks area and if you are free come out to some fun activities. Starting this Wed March 16 to the 18.  🙂 Grades are everything keep them up. You are worth an A+

NEW VLOG ALERT! “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out. But I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. I get to the heart of the human. I get to the root of things. I treat…

The music I listen to has shifted a great deal over the past years, starting at about age 15 or 16. I remember the day God tugged on my heart to give my life to him and just going into my room and breaking up...

NEW VLOG Alert! Proverbs 11:22 ” Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.”        

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/A-Reward-is-Coming.-Dont-Miss-it-mp3.mp3 When we look at God's word we often look at it as a book of do' and don'ts, as if God wants to suck the fun out of life. But remember, God is life and He wants us to enjoy this life and have...

For Pt. 1 Click here I just love it when the message hits mainstream. I love it when people who have been given a platform actually use it in the way it was designed to be used. Here on SA my main topic is sex...

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/I-want-What-She-Has.mp3 OMG she is so pretty. She is talented. Her clothes are soooo cute. Wow, her hair is gorgeous. Look at her body she can always stay thin. I wish I was her. I wish I had what she has. I wish, I, wish I...

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/I-Am-SHE-Abundantly-Final-.mp3 SHE Abundantly is more than just an idea or the title to some blog, its a movement! When I decided to start this blog some years ago I had no clue what was really going to come about through it. I just knew that...

For Part 1 Click Here –> Relationship Goals Pt. 1 Like no lie, by far this is the best relationship I have ever been in. I never realized just how good He was. Like everything that I have  always wanted and then some is right here…

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/5-reasons-to-love-being-single.mp3 Do you like being single? Why or why not? Have you ever felt like the odd ball when you are not in a relationship? As if you are missing out on life? I have felt that way before. And because of that I made...

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/You-pack-a-mighty-punch-Girl1.mp3 The year has not even really begun and I have already felt like a failure, in ways one may not understand. I had to have so much life spoken into me just so that I could get up and stop the tears.   I...

Hey you! I’m enjoying this holiday season, you should too 🙂 SA will be back  with a new post Monday Jan 4th to start off the new yr right! In the mean time encourage yourself. Do you still find yourself  going in circles? In a…

No matter what we do or say, what we don’t do or don’t say, it tells a lot about who we are. We are all born into this world a blank canvas ready to be shaped and molded into a being.

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/You-pack-a-mighty-punch-Girl.mp3 For a time in my life, I hated where I lived. To all those who still currently live in their home town can definitely relate to this. I have always been a person that never liked to stay stagnant, stuck in one place. But...

NEW Vlog Alert! The title speaks for itself. It’s Story time! Go head, press play!

NEW VLOG ALERT!!!! Do you like your hair? What does hair mean to you? Find out what it meant to me and see my transition from permed to natural hair. Press Play 🙂

NEW Vlog Post. Check it out 🙂  

WARNING: This info is going to bless you and change your thinking forever!!!!!!!!!!! Genesis 2:18 says ” The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him”. I’m sure you’ve heard this scripture being…

Its about that time. See what ya girl is bringing to the table for today s  Vlog edition at SHE Abundantly.

As I talk to young ladies I often hear the same thing: Love = Sex and sex is always called ” making love”.  But is it? Find out what love is and exactly what it is not!!

Part 2->   How to Seek your Purpose  Pt. 2  Have you ever felt this way?  Not being in a relationship or marriage, do you  feel like you are missing out, as if you have the short end of the stick? Are you always wanting what...

Hey y’all! SA is taking a hiatus this month but don’t worry, a new post will be available Sept 1st Don’t leave!!! Check out the boat load of post on this blog and share with a friend.  As you do so, feed your mind with…

If you ever took the time to look at my blog tile and subtitle you would notice that it says ” Creating better relationships with God self and others”, and that’s really been the focus of everything I write. I talk about how to stay…

When God created sex, he created it to be good and with healthy boundaries, boundaries that protect us in every way possible. Sex is a beautiful creation but if done outside of His boundaries, it is the worst thing we can do to ourselves (...

Idol= an image or representation of a god used as an object of worship. And to worship means to put something or someone else above all things making it number 1. Whenever we put anything before God we have knowingly or unknowing made that thing...