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NEVER Let a Guy Make You His Girlfriend! Here’s Why

Boyfriend and girlfriend culture is a thing that we have been born into and easily accept.   " I like you, you like me. GREAT let's be bf and gf."   This relationship gives the girl and guy a false sense of ownership and it...

Tips On How to WIN At Sex!

I can not tell you how EXCITED I am that the sun is finally coming out to stay! Going through a winter season on top of quarantining is NOT what's up! I need LIGHT! The sun is so vital to a person's health and mood!...
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When You’re Feeling Anxious and Unstable

Hiiii queen!! OMG I MISSED YOU! How have you been doing during this quarantine? What a crazy year it has been.  Soooo much has happened in just this one year and I can't wait to tell you about it. Trust me, you are going to...
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Why Condoms, Birth-Control & Plan B Don’t Work

Its seems so easy. If you want to have sex then just use a condom or better yet protect yourself from pregnancy by getting on birth control. That way if you forget a condom at least you wont have to worry about getting pregnant. Simple...
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What to Do When You Are Hurting!

I'm NOT okay. And I have learned enough in life to know that it's okay to not be okay. I have been a little silent these past few weeks because I'm trying to deal with grief that I never saw coming. The racism and police...
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You’re Being Sexually Groomed and You Don’t Even Know It!

We often hear about sexual grooming when it comes to sex trafficking or men trying to lure young children in to have sex with them but have you ever thought about it happening in your relationships? What's really happening when he grabs your booty or...
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What Does It Really Mean To Worship God?

Hey queen! Do you desire to worship God? Well how does one worship Him? Anytime we think of worship we automatically think of a song playing and our hands in the air. That's great and a great way to express your heartfelt devotion to Him...
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Before You Sneak Him Over, Here’s 5 Reasons Why You Should Think Twice!

I use to sneak boys over to my parent's house and it started when I was a freshman in high school. It all began the night I saw my mom laying in a hospital bed because of domestic violence. I believe that night broke me...

Who Invited Corona to the Party?

Heyyyyy girrrrl!!!  HAPPY NEW YEAR...in March lol This is my first blog post of the year and it is long overdue but yet right on time. Queen! How are you? I have missed our girl chats. I hope you have too. So tell me, how...

Bloom Where You Are Planted

Bloom where you are planted. I have a wall of encouragement with this statement in the middle of it all. I often have to look at this saying and remind myself to simply stay planted. Sometimes life can seem quite challenging to handle and the...
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Being Wanted for You Vs. Being Wanted for Your Body!

Being wanted by a guy, especially the guy you like may sometimes feel like a dream come true. For someone to show you special attention makes you feel chosen in more ways than one. I mean hey, what girl doesn't want to be wanted and...
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Do Good People Go To Heaven?

Hey girl hheeeeeeyyyy! I just want to tell you thank you for being a faithful reader/ watcher (lol) on this blog. I know there have been a couple of weeks past ( I blog every other Monday) without any new content and that is due...
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I Got All The Way to His Bed and Said NO!

Have you ever been in a situation and wanted to change your mind last minute? I have been in a few situations like that myself and there is one in particular that I just can't pass up telling you about. Feeling the pressure to perform...

Getting Over A Break Up | Living Single Ep. 10-11

Are you in a relationship and you know you shouldn't be? My last relationship lasted 4 years... yes 4 years too long and I knew I was not supposed to be in it. I stayed out of comfort and fear. I stayed because I didn't...
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Don’t Give Up!

Are you in need of some encouragement right now? As I play this video back I realize that i'm really talking to MYSELF! Sometimes I will get words and record them and i’m the main one in desperate need of it. But I want to...
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Pt. 3 Why I Am Single And Not Having Sex of Any Kind! | Living Single Ep. 9

Sex is such an amazing act. There are so many factors that come into play when it comes to sex that the mind can't even begin to understand it all. God knew this when he created it. It's so huge, so big, that he knows...
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Pt.2 Why I Am Single and NOT Having Sex…of Any Kind | Living Single Ep. 8

Masturbation is such a touchy subject ( pun intended ). It's so touchy that many of us rarely if ever find ourselves talking about it. I mean, when was the last time you and your family or friends had a conversation about masturbation over dinner?...
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Pt.1 Why I Am Single and NOT Having Sex…of Any Kind | Living Single Ep. 7

"Sex! You can do it when you want with whoever you want!" Right?! That's our attitude towards sex and that was my attitude for years until I noticed that Sex + my life = overdraft after overdraft. It just wasn't adding up! Sex feels good...

Why I Walked Away from a 4 Year Relationship | Living Single Ep.6

Have you ever went a long time without food and was starving to eat? I have! It's not a good feeling. During those moments you feel like death is around the corner and any kind of food you see starts to look good to eat....

Change Your Mind About Singlehood…ASAP!

The heart of a single woman needs to be reminded that her life revolves around soooo much more than a relationship with a guy. The sooner she sees single hood for what it really is, the sooner her life, your life,  will begin to fill...

Living Life as a Single Mother Pt.3 | Living Single Ep.5

This is the final week of this amazing talk I have been having with my sister. This week we are talking about how she moved on from being a single mom to married with 3 kids and the importance of being picky when it comes...
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Living Life as a Single Mother Pt.2 | Living Single Ep.4

Hey ladies! We are in the middle of a conversation I had with my sister as we talked about her life as a single mom. If you have not checked out part 1 of this much needed convo, girrllll you betta get on it lol...
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Living Life as a Single Mother Pt.1 | Living Single Ep.3

Being a single mom is tough! I know a little about that life because I was raised by one. Being a parent is a life change in itself but having to take on the responsibility of 2 parents is never the ideal situation. Some people...

3 Struggles in Being Single | Living Single Ep.2

What up ladies! I so hope you enjoyed 3 Things to LOVE About Being Single! This week we are talking about the not so great parts. With life comes struggles, and being single is no exception. Check out 3 things that can be a struggle...
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3 Things to Love About Being Single | Living Single Ep.1

When was the last time you were honest with yourself? Let me ask you this question; are you really enjoying life as a single young woman (not married)? Or are you constantly worried about the next phase in life, your relationship status and when it...
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Call a Thing a Thing – Dating Tip # 13

"R.E.S.P.E.C.T, find out what it means to me!" Wait, what does it mean?  We hear this word all the time and even scream it out when we feel "disrespected". But how many of us really know what it is or what it looks like?  I...
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Two Things the Enemy Has the Power to do to You & How to Combat Them!

Did you know that you have an enemy? No, i'm not talking about that girl who mean mugged you or them haters that talk about you but yet smile in your face. I'm talking about the devil, the one who is the mastermind behind all...

Shred the ALL Access Pass- Dating Tip #12

Do you love going to amusement parks? I do! Once you gain access, you can go wild, laugh it up, and ride all the rides over and over.  You have the time of your life, and when you go inside, you can pretty much do...
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The Choice is Yours (not his)- Dating Tip #11

Have you ever been out in public and a guy walks up to you, asking you for your number? What is your response? Do you give him your number? Are you just happy that someone asked you out? I have been in situations like that....
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Thinking of Going Back to that Relationship? Do this Instead!

Happy New Year queens! I want to start this new year right and what's better than some young woman empowerment? I know some of us didn't start the best way coming into 2019. In fact, there are some who have started this year off with...

More Good Stuff to Come

Hey you! I hope you have been enjoying this dating series so far! There are so many gems for you to cherish and to help you protect and prepare your heart for the right relationship that you are created for. As of now, SHE Abundantly…

Date With Purpose- Dating Tip #10

"Girl, if you like him, then go out with him. If you think he is cute, then just give him your number. Get into a relationship with him while you are at it. It's cool!" This is what our dating culture teaches us, to just...

You Need A Man- Dating Tip #9

How many times have you heard this, "I don't need a man, I can do this by myself, I am mother and father, men aint..." Well you get my drift! There is a common theme in the heart of women across the globe that they...
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Respect His Marriage, Even If He Doesn’t -Dating Tip #8

When you find out that a guy is married what do you do? Does that stop you from talking to him or fuel you even more to go after him? I mean, if he is married he clearly has some qualities that you desperately desire...

Lead With True Beauty, Not Your Body- Dating Tip #7

Have you ever found yourself using your body to attract a guy? You are not alone. From my clothes to my social media post, I would use my body to get the attention of guys. I mean that's how you do it right? What I...

Don’t Fall for a Predators Game | Dating Tip # 6

Last week we talked about predators and how they come in to take from you. This week I want to share with you the #1 trick that predators use to get what they want...you! You may have fell for this game before and never even...

Beware of Predators-Dating Tip #5

A predator is not always an animal in the wild looking for his next meal. He can also be the very one in your face trying to talk to you, or even in a relationship with you right now. I have faced a few predators...
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Never Chase a Man- Dating Tip #4

Ooh girl he is cute! I wonder if he has a girlfriend. How come he's not trying to talk to me? I'm about to slide into his DM's. I need him to notice me! I cant wait anymore, i'm going after what I want. How...

Run For Cover- Dating Tip #3

We are all very familiar with a covering. When there is a storm outside, the first thing you do is run for shelter or pull out an umbrella hoping you make it to your destination without getting wet. We cover and protect ourselves in so...
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Get The #1 Relationship Coach- Dating Tip #2

Dating sometimes feels like you are going to war. You never know what’s ahead of you or what will be thrown your way. We clearly need guidance and insight! Who better to go to then the one who knows everything about relationships! When I let...
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Make Your Tears Count- Dating Tip #1

Hey ladies! Today is the start of a brand new series on dating. So many of us ladies go through so much unnecessary pain for the sake of #RelationshipGoals, and it let me tell you, there is nothing cute nor fun about a broken heart....
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Women Train Men How To Treat Them

Hey Queen! Do You follow SHE Abundantly on YouTube? If not, click Here to subscribe. Sometimes I post videos there that don't make it as a blog post here, but I want to make sure this video doesn't miss your eyes. How do guys treat...
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The One Power You Never Knew You Had!

It's very common for a young lady to accept any guy that approaches her, settling for any attention she can get! Often times this stems from never being chosen before, especially from her father. The one man who is suppose to chose her all the...
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Wait What?! What You Call Me? My Take On The “B” Word

Do you label yourself as a B!%@#? Do you let others call you a B!%@#? How does it make you feel when you hear that word? To some people, it's just another word and to others it's even a good word, one that you greet...
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The “Free Sample” Trap!

Who loves free samples?? This girl! I have a feeling you love them too. I mean, who doesn't? Especially free food. You get to taste different stuff with no cost and if you don't like it, you can simply...trash it! Free samples are GREAT, but...
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Feeling Pressured to Have Sex! Tell Him This!

Unfortunately it's not unheard of that guys pressure girls to give up their body for sex. In fact I know that pressure all to well. I realized that growing up as a young girl and now young woman, I believed that my voice didn't carry...

Your First Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt.7

When you hear "first love", who do you think of? Your boyfriend? The first guy you kiss? Maybe it's your dad. A first love holds a position in your heart that can never be replaced. It follows you in thought and desire for the duration...

Transforming Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt. 6

Hey ladies! Welcome back to this amazing chat on the best love you will ever have. This week we are talking about one of the best characteristics of this love. This characteristic has changed my life in the best way and I am forever thankful...

Forever Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt. 5

Have you ever thought that the one you loved, will always love you back? Have you ever loved someone and thought that you will never stop loving them? Only to find out that the love you were experiencing was just a temporary as your next...
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Unconditional Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt. 4

"If you don't do this, then I won't do that!" How many times have we heard that? We maybe have even said it a few times as well. Now let's not get love confused here. Love is to give up your selfish desires for the...

Selfless Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt. 3

We always hear that sex equals love! I mean almost every r&b song talks about making love and when it does, we immediately think of sex. So far we have talked about what love is and how beneficial it is... but illegal sex actually falls...
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Beneficial Love! The Best Love You Will Ever Have | Pt. 2

Hey ladies! Did you enjoy part 1? Is love what you have always thought it was? Let me guess, true love is even better than what you thought, right? We left off with the definition of love that you will never forget and how to...
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What Love Is. The Best Love You Will Ever Have! Pt.1

Love! The 4 letter word that everyone says but only few know what it is. How many times do you use the word love in one day? "Oh I love those shoes! "Ooh I love your hair"! Or how about this one, " I love...
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Preparing For The One Relationship That Will Last!

Hey ladies! We have learned so much these past few months on learning our self worth and the fact that we are not girlfriends. I want to continue on this road with ...dating and preparation. A few years ago a friend sent me a teaching...
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Why are Guys NOT Trying to Talk to Me?

How come guys are not trying to talk to me? I mean, am I ugly? Is there something wrong with me? Do I need to do more? Show More? Look more available? Maybe I need to be more like what guys like! Okay okay, at...
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So You Think You’re Ready for Marriage?

How many of us ladies have said "I want to be married" or "I can't wait to be married". You can't see it but my hand is raised! I have had my share of fantasies just like the next girl. Many of us have already...
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You Get it From Yo Momma!

Do people say you look like your mother a lot? How about this one:  "You act just like yo momma, and you talk like her too." Oooh genetics, so cool and complicated at the same time.  Where we come from and even who we come...
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You Need This to Overcome Sexual Sin! Pt.2

Hey ladies! I hope you enjoyed SA's previous blog post, Click ->  You Need This to Overcome Sexual Sin! Pt. 1 . I have learned that to be successful at anything, you can't do it alone.  With sin, especially sexual sin, it can bring one a lot...
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You Need This to Overcome Sexual Sin! Pt. 1

I just LOVE telling all my business just so the person next to me can know that they are not the odd ball, that we all have way more in common than we think and to make any religious people VERY UNCOMFORTABLE.  We succeed by...
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The Most Important Rule of Dating!

Oh the world of dating! To be honest, not many know what they are doing. They end of getting hurt or hurting the other involved in some way and then go through the whole entire process with a totally different person. The cycle continues! I...
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When You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough!

So many people chase money, fame recognition, status and it can cause you to feel like you are missing out, or if you don't have what they have then you are not worth anything! People can make you feel so bad, less than dirt. Sometimes...
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The One Thing Every Young Woman Needs in Her Life!

What's the one thing that every young girl needs in her life? That go to pair of shoes? The best hair product ever made? Oooh ooohh what about that bomb dress that you see the girls wearing on Instagram? Naw that's not it! It's something...
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Sex, Worship & Demons! How Do They All Connect? Girls Lets Talk About Sex! Topic #4

If you have not checked out topic #3, you can check it out here -> Why You Should Not Do this Permanent Thing in a Temporary Relationship! Girls Let’s Talk About Sex! Topic #3 Hey ladies. I have another installment of the video series "...
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Why You Should Not Do this Permanent Thing in a Temporary Relationship! Girls Let’s Talk About Sex! Topic #3

If you have not already, check out topic #2 in this series on sex We Had Sex & Now I Can’t Live Without Him! Girls Let's Talk About Sex. Some how girls start training at a very young age to learn to nurture and care...
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You Are Already a Wife!

Young woman I want to empower you right now! If God has already set you up (before the earth was even created) to be a wife, then you are a wife, point, blank, period! You are not created to be a girlfriend, baby momma or...
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The Big Booty Syndrome

Hey Hey SA readers! It's time to highlight another SHE Abundantly YouTube Video! By the way, if you have not subscribed on YouTube then what in the world are you waiting on?? Subscribe HERE!   If you could, would you physically change your own body...
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What’s in a Gender?

Boy…girl…both? Wait, what am I? Who am I?  I see one thing but I feel like another. There must have been a mistake!

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We Had Sex & Now I Can’t Live Without Him! Girls Let’s Talk About Sex. Topic #2

If you have not already, check out topic # 1 in this series on sex. So You Think You’re a Virgin? Girls, Lets Talk About Sex! Topic #1 Have you made a decision to have sex with a guy and now you feel like you...
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When Love Means Letting Him Go!

Hey faithful SA readers! It's that time again, time to get some truth that will transform your way of thinking and prayerfully your entire life. I just love sharing all my personal business ( LOL), and this time is no different. In my search for...
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Social Media & How It Has Changed You!

Social Media, a wonderful invention, a way to connect with so many people across the world, a way to get a message out to the masses. Social media can do so many things, I mean, it can LITERALLY change your entire life.

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So You Think You’re a Virgin? Girls, Lets Talk About Sex! Topic #1

Hey Ladies! I have decided to start a new video series. I talk about sex a lot. I love to educate and talk about the real deal because so many ladies don't have a clue about it ( as I didn't know as a young...
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A Good Man Vs. A God Man Pt. 2

Hey ladies!!! New Video Alert I wrote about this topic awhile back and I was led to make a video about it. For A Good Man Vs. A God Man Pt. 1  Click Here  How many of us have ever been in a relationship with...
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7 Secrets Guys Will Never Tell You, A Teen Girl’s Guide on Love, Sex & Relationships!

What’s good SA followers! I am so EXCITED to tell you what’s going down for us queens. You do not want to miss out on this.

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Wanting a Man That’s NOT Good for You! Pt.2

As I promised, here it is, part 2! To keep it all the way 100, I have thought over and over on if I should even share this video in its entirety. I thought things like "is it really going to help any one? Is...
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SHE Don’t Settle! Settling Pt.5

I love to glean from other women who have the same Holy Spirit as me 🙂 If I am going to be online, on social media, why not make sure that what I am allowing myself to see and hear is nothing but the good...
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Wanting A Man That’s NOT Good For You! Pt. 1

Have you ever wanted something that you knew was just NOT good for you? Of course you have: that cookie, them doughnuts, all that ice cream lol But what about when it comes to a person, yes a man/ relationship? What did you do about...
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Flee For Your Life!

Merry Christmas and Happy NEW year to all of my wonderful SA readers. I just have to tell you that I love you, no foreal. I am so grateful for you because by your engagement in this content, it makes my purpose on this earth...
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I Kept Having Dreams About This Man!!

For the life of me I could not figure out why I kept dreaming about this one particular guy. But soon enough my eyes were open and it all became clear as day. Find out out jut exactly what I am talking about. You REALLY...
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The “Marriage Idol”

What up SA readers! I hope that you are doing oh so good.  This week I wanted to share yet another personal vlog with you all. I went back and forth on whether I should upload this video you are about to watch or another...
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Good Hair, Bad Hair & The Truth! VLOG

As we grow as young women its a must that we learn to see ourselves as God intended us to. I would spend so much time on YouTube trying to perfect my outer self only to realize that I was trying to be the best...
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Sex Talk Purpose Walk! Purpose Pt. 4

Part 3 -> I’m Single and I’m Missing Out!!! Purpose Pt. 3 Purpose is the goal of life! I remember the encouragement I heard from Priscilla Shirer as I was watching one of her videos when she said what ever the enemy tries so hard to...
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Do I Really Need To Go To Church?

Do I really need to go to church? This is a popular question that i’m sure you have asked either in your head or to someone one else. I have asked the same question and can I be totally honest with the answer?

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No Sex= CLARITY!!!!

Hey faithful SA blog readers. As you may have noticed, new blog post are now posted every other Monday as it's beneficial to me at this point. I encourage you to come back EVERY Monday and check out the countless blog post and videos here that...
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Rejection, Separation, Inspiration!

Inspiration Maaaan I had soooooo much fun this past week. Some how the people that inspire me, I mean truly breathe life into me , find their way to ole Kansas City. I went to see such a real cool dude in concert, His name…

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Thinking About Abortion?

VIDEO ALERT! Sometimes its scary to talk about the things not commonly shared but we only destroy ourselves when we keep things hidden. As you watch I pray that God speaks to you on many levels. Stay Encouraged.

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RELATIONSHIPS & Going With The Flow! VLOG

VLOG alert! VLOG alert VLOG alert! I'm going to just go with the flow." "I'm going to just see where this takes me." " This is just a casual kind of thing, no pressure, if we hit it off then cool if not then cool...
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Name Brands to One Name!

Its so easy to find ourselves looking for self worth in all the wrong places. We all want to be associated with the greats right?  That's becasue deep down inside we are looking for power and worth. Some find it in money, other people, cities...
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A Good Man Vs. A God Man

I know we hear this often from almost every woman's mouth and i'm sure we have said it for ourselves, " I want a good man". But did you know that even good is considered settling? Confused? Don't worry, clarity is coming your way, Keep reading! Romantic...
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Poets in Autumn Tour 2016

Let me just say that I am SOOOOOOO excited about this tour! They came to Kansas City last year and it was just amazing! I just love the many different art forms that God has given us to express ourselves. Music, writing, dance, spoken word,...
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Sex, Masturbation, Homosexuality, Pornography, Sexual Fantasy

My purpose in life is to mentor young women and a huge part of that is talking about sex! I always talk about it because it is so common in the world to think that sex is everything and you must do it to be...
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Who Is Jesus & Why Do We Need Him?

Who is Jesus? Who are we in relation to Jesus? Why do we need Jesus? This is explained in 4 minutes by one those dope artist that builds the Kingdom, Propaganda. Press Play and be changed      

I Had Sex with Him & Led Him Astray. His Blood was on my Hands !! VLOG

VLOG ALERT! Yea you don't want to miss out on this one!!        

Happy Independence Day!

Freedom! Thank you God for those who fought just so we could be free in this country. But also,  remember that God shed His blood first so that we can be free! Don’t pass this up because although we can be free physically we can…

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I Don’t Like PEOPLE!

PEOPLE PEOPLE PEOPLE! Most of our issues seems like it has to do with people! They did this, ugh they did that, she didn’t do this, they get on my nerves! Have you ever just flat out said” I DON’T LIKE PEOPLE!” Yea me too!…

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Confident Chick!

NEW VLOG ALERT! What are you waiting for? Press play!

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I Think I like Girls! Homosexuality Pt. 2

Part 1 Click HERE Homosexuality should never be something to be afraid to talk about. People are so quick to jump and ask people what they think about it but when was the last time you have stopped and asked God about His views and...
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“When I Get Dressed It Says…” SA Fashion Pt. 2

Pt. 1 ->  SHE Abundantly Fashion | Holy Breast & Booty | Mature Audience Only! VLOG THOT= That Hoe Over There! This is a very disrespectful label and who wants this label on them??? Some girls actually dont mind it...wait what??? I don't even use...
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Go hard or Go Home!

Go hard or go home! It’s easy to try and barely make it by, c+ is passing right? As long as I can make the room look clean then I’m good. I mean, nobody knows that all I did was stuff everything under the bed…

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Guard Your Heart at All Times

Hey SA readers! SA will be back next week with some great stuff coming your way. In the mean time take this life lesson to heart! For more of good stuff like this follow SHE Abundantly on Fb, Instagram and Twitter 🙂

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I Hear Voices! Where Do They Come From?

May is Mental Health Awareness month and I recently took a mental first aid class and it was amazing! I learned so much and it just really opened my eyes to the things that many people struggle with. Many things talked about I could totally...
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6 Things to Remember About your Mother

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/6-things-to-Remember-about-your-Mother.mp3 That mother and daughter relationship can be something else. You bump heads more than you would like, momma just wants whats best for you but sometimes you just don't see it that way! My relationship with my mother has been a journey full of...
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Beautiful Things Don’t Need Attention!

We live in a a world where women and girls feel they have to give there bodies away in sex or create a whole new body to be beautiful or to be loved. I believed this to be true once, but it’s not true. God had…

What Does the Rainbow Mean? VLOG

I’m sure you have seen a rainbow in the sky. You see it depicted in many places and maybe for a few different reasons but do you know what the true meaning of a rainbow is? Find out 🙂

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Life Goes On! Words of Encouragement

I don't have enough money to pay my bills! I am stuck at this dead end job! I'm in this relationship that is hurting me and I feel there is no way out! I am a single mother with no career. My close loved one...
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Life After Having Sex! From a Single’s Point of View

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/Life-after-Sex-the-after-math-addition.mp3 Young ladies have given their virginity away for many reasons. Maybe they thought that's what love was, it was the popular thing to do or that's what makes you a woman. Whatever the reason may be, there is life afterwards. To think that things...
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I Think I like girls! Homosexuality Pt.1

When I was a little girl I found myself kissing girls and eventually went from kissing to other things. I didn't know who created me, who God was or what his design was for sex  and marriage. When we don't know our Father's voice  (God)...
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Lies You Tell!

We have all lied and for many reasons. It could have been to save self from shame and  embarrassment, to get out of trouble and…well, I think those are the main reasons why people lie. Oh, some people lie just because the sun is out…

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That’s a Bad Chick!

As we grow as young women we develop certain characteristics about ourselves that make us who we are. Our character is how we respond  to situations every time or basically what we have allowed in our hearts. There are so many examples out there of…

Happy Spring Break

This week is spring break for many here in the Kansas city, Ks area and if you are free come out to some fun activities. Starting this Wed March 16 to the 18.  🙂 Grades are everything keep them up. You are worth an A+

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Why NOT to Follow your Heart! Emotions & Relationships

NEW VLOG ALERT! “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out. But I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. I get to the heart of the human. I get to the root of things. I treat…

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Let the Beat Drop!

The music I listen to has shifted a great deal over the past years, starting at about age 15 or 16. I remember the day God tugged on my heart to give my life to him and just going into my room and breaking up...
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SHE Abundantly Fashion | Holy Breast & Booty | Mature Audience Only! VLOG

NEW VLOG Alert! Proverbs 11:22 ” Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.”        

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A Reward is Coming! Don’t Miss it

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/A-Reward-is-Coming.-Dont-Miss-it-mp3.mp3 When we look at God's word we often look at it as a book of do' and don'ts, as if God wants to suck the fun out of life. But remember, God is life and He wants us to enjoy this life and have...
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WAIT! Pt. 2

For Pt. 1 Click here I just love it when the message hits mainstream. I love it when people who have been given a platform actually use it in the way it was designed to be used. Here on SA my main topic is sex...
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I Want What She Has!

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/I-want-What-She-Has.mp3 OMG she is so pretty. She is talented. Her clothes are soooo cute. Wow, her hair is gorgeous. Look at her body she can always stay thin. I wish I was her. I wish I had what she has. I wish, I, wish I...
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I Am SHE Abundantly

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/I-Am-SHE-Abundantly-Final-.mp3 SHE Abundantly is more than just an idea or the title to some blog, its a movement! When I decided to start this blog some years ago I had no clue what was really going to come about through it. I just knew that...
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That’s Bae! Relationship Goals Pt. 2

For Part 1 Click Here –> Relationship Goals Pt. 1 Like no lie, by far this is the best relationship I have ever been in. I never realized just how good He was. Like everything that I have  always wanted and then some is right here…

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5 Reasons to Love Being Single

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/5-reasons-to-love-being-single.mp3 Do you like being single? Why or why not? Have you ever felt like the odd ball when you are not in a relationship? As if you are missing out on life? I have felt that way before. And because of that I made...
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You Pack a Mighty Punch Girl! Words of Encouragement

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/You-pack-a-mighty-punch-Girl1.mp3 The year has not even really begun and I have already felt like a failure, in ways one may not understand. I had to have so much life spoken into me just so that I could get up and stop the tears.   I...

Happy New Year From SA

Hey you! I’m enjoying this holiday season, you should too 🙂 SA will be back  with a new post Monday Jan 4th to start off the new yr right! In the mean time encourage yourself. Do you still find yourself  going in circles? In a…

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Booty on the Sink

No matter what we do or say, what we don’t do or don’t say, it tells a lot about who we are. We are all born into this world a blank canvas ready to be shaped and molded into a being.

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Hanging with Fools = Becoming a Fool

https://sheabundantly.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/You-pack-a-mighty-punch-Girl.mp3 For a time in my life, I hated where I lived. To all those who still currently live in their home town can definitely relate to this. I have always been a person that never liked to stay stagnant, stuck in one place. But...
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Side Chicks! VLOG

NEW Vlog Alert! The title speaks for itself. It’s Story time! Go head, press play!

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What Is Hair To You? VLOG

NEW VLOG ALERT!!!! Do you like your hair? What does hair mean to you? Find out what it meant to me and see my transition from permed to natural hair. Press Play 🙂

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Words of Encouragement: Purpose & Worth VLOG

NEW Vlog Post. Check it out 🙂  

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It’s not Good for Man to be Alone, Except this Man!

WARNING: This info is going to bless you and change your thinking forever!!!!!!!!!!! Genesis 2:18 says ” The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him”. I’m sure you’ve heard this scripture being…

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Depending on a Man…Yay or Nay? VLOG

Its about that time. See what ya girl is bringing to the table for today s  Vlog edition at SHE Abundantly.

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What Love is & What It’s NOT!! VLOG

As I talk to young ladies I often hear the same thing: Love = Sex and sex is always called ” making love”.  But is it? Find out what love is and exactly what it is not!!

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I’m Single and I’m Missing Out!!! Purpose Pt. 3

Part 2->   How to Seek your Purpose  Pt. 2  Have you ever felt this way?  Not being in a relationship or marriage, do you  feel like you are missing out, as if you have the short end of the stick? Are you always wanting what...

A Brief Intermission…

Hey y’all! SA is taking a hiatus this month but don’t worry, a new post will be available Sept 1st Don’t leave!!! Check out the boat load of post on this blog and share with a friend.  As you do so, feed your mind with…

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Relationship Goals! Pt. 1

If you ever took the time to look at my blog tile and subtitle you would notice that it says ” Creating better relationships with God self and others”, and that’s really been the focus of everything I write. I talk about how to stay…

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The True Definition of SEX

When God created sex, he created it to be good and with healthy boundaries, boundaries that protect us in every way possible. Sex is a beautiful creation but if done outside of His boundaries, it is the worst thing we can do to ourselves (...
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” The Relationship Idol “

Idol= an image or representation of a god used as an object of worship. And to worship means to put something or someone else above all things making it number 1. Whenever we put anything before God we have knowingly or unknowing made that thing...
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How to seek your purpose Pt. 2

If you have not read Part 1 , get caught up before continuing ( very important) Loneliness is Not the Absence of People but… Pt. 1. We often hear on what to do and what not to do, but in this beautiful thing called life, I…

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“Loneliness is not the Absence of a Man but…” Purpose Pt. 1

Purpose = the reason for which something is created

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I am not a B*%#@!

Whats a Bad Chick? The worlds definition of a Bad Chick:

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PLAYED OUT in 2015!

Fashion trends come and go and you always hear of things that’s considered “In” this yr and things that are no longer hip, cool, trendy, fashionable or “on fleek” lol Its a new year and there is something that needs to stay in 2014 never to…

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Girls, Lets Talk about Sex!! Pt. 2

When We Know better We Do Better  I have come to realize that God is calling me higher and He is calling you too. He has a purpose for me and I can no longer let the enemy keep coming in and steal my joy, my peace,…

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Girls, Lets Talk about Sex !! Pt. 1

I wish when I was younger someone would have sat me down and talked to me about sex. I wish when I was younger someone would have been real with me and schooled me on the game. I wish when I was younger I would…

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Make Up Your Mind TODAY ! Words of Encouragement

Going in circles?? Naaw, make it up in your mind TODAY that you cant afford to spend another day blind and in the wilderness going in circles, first name " Compromise " last name " Repeat." You have kids looking up to you, lil girls...
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My Daily Confessions: How do you see yourself?

Do you have a list of confessions that you speak out loud to yourself everyday? If not, you should. Prov 81:21 says “Life and death is in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit.” What this means is…

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How to Date as a Christian

MY LIFE HAS OFFICIALLY BEEN CHANGED FOREVER! I am no longer bound, struggling in a relationship, trying to force something when it just wasn’t meant to be, all due to a lack of knowledge. I now know how to enter into the dating world and…

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Condoms, Birth Control, Plan B Pill, Abortion…the TRUTH Behind it All!

  “We can choose what we want to do but we can’t choose the consequences!” This was the title of a lesson I prepared and spoke at a youth conference. These words are so few but is loaded with so much power. As a matter…