“We can choose what we want to do but we can’t choose the consequences!” This was the title of a lesson I prepared and spoke at a youth conference. These words are so few but is loaded with so much power. As a matter of fact this is one of life’s most crucial lessons but one that so many have yet to grasp, including myself at one time.

My prayer is that every soul who reads and listens to this audio will truly understand exactly what it means. It will save your soul if you let it 🙂

On the audio you’re about to listen to I mainly talk about 2 things: SEX and MUSIC. Here is something not on there that I want you to walk away with but this only compliments the audio as they both go together.


Condoms, birth control, abortion, plan B pill… all these man made devices were made as a way to protect us from an unwanted consequence during or after premarital sex.  But here is an absolute truth: these devices might, I said might, be able to save us from STD s & pregnancy, which are consequences in this earthly realm,  but none of them can save us from the consequences in the spiritual realm! (Consequences that matter the most  and that are unavoidable ) They can’t prevent the spread of Sexually Transmitted Demons that we contract by just having sex even once outside marriage ( Negative soul ties). They can’t prevent our souls from spiritual torment and the hurt God feels when we reject Him,  and they sure can’t save us from eternal separation from God.

See, this is what the world doesn’t warn us about when they fill our heads up with sex images, videos, and the WHOLE rap/r&b industry that tells us to twerk that, let him hit that etc. God warns us of all the consequences out of His great love for us, but we perish because we reject that kind of knowledge. But Accept it. This kind of knowledge lets us know that we have the POWER to choose, to choose life, choose Christ. When we are aware of this kind of power it prevents us from falling victim to the world who strategically only gives us choices after the damage is done, like what flavor condoms to buy, how long you have to take the plan B pill after unprotected sex, or what clinic to go to.

It’s God’s will that we save sex until marriage for a reason, which is to protect us from the degradation of our spirits and souls. It doesn’t please Him nor benefit us to have multiple sex partners and negative soul ties, STD’s to worry about or fathers that hit and leave and are no longer around to take care of the child. But when the enemy made all these devices for us, we began to think that it’s OK to have sex or “slip up”, ignoring Gods word that says wait , because now I can save myself physically. I can get rid of or prevent the child from seeing the light of day if I don’t want it. Or how about this one; I can save my reputation on the outside while on the inside my soul is yet scattered to pieces. Yea that one was mine.

A young girl, saved by the way, who had the heart to obey but yet struggling to stay pure (not possessing the wisdom on how to flee temptation at the time), turning to”Plan B” only so that I can save face, prevent what I thought would be ridicule shame and judgement and to prevent anyone from knowing my struggles. I was more concerned of what people would think then my relationship with Christ, forgetting that I had people in my life that would help and pray me through and not hold me down. It’s real out here and I’m the first to say that and the reason why I’m so transparent is because I know there are many ladies, especially in the church, who have fallen victim to the lies of the enemy and