Mark 10:7-8 “For this reason a man shall leave[behind] his father and his mother and be joined to his wife and cleave closely to her permanently, and the two shall become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh.” AMP
1 Cor 6:16″ Do you not know that he who unites himself with (has sex with) a prostitute ( a person period) is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”
How many of you, like me, have been married a couple times but never walked down anyone’s aisle, said I do, and tossed no flowers, not even a petal? Never would you have thought you would have to get divorced before you really got married huh? And by the way, the only one who can help you recover from those negative soul ties is Christ. And be very aware that Christ forgives but scars and the consequences we suffer through afterwards may stay forever. We reap what we sow. This is a spiritual law.
See, this kind of marriage is what I call an ILLEGAL marriage, not ordained by God. He does not cover, honor, nor bless it and instead of it being a wife, husband and God its an illegitimate wife, husband and an open door to demonic forces. It brings disaster and does not end happily ever after, and I can tell you that’s true for sure!
Girl, It Aint Worth It!
When I say that having sex before marriage was the worst decision, that’s exactly what I mean!! I spent so many nights crying over a boy, an emotional hell, wondering about him. And when we were done talking I felt stupid & ashamed,
“I let you touch me and we’re just going to stop talking, just like that??”
I felt as if he took a part of me with him, which he did. Now I’m left with a scattered soul, emotional scars & memories I wish I never had.
Waiting for marriage you will be physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually healthier. You won’t have to worry about STD’s, being a baby momma with a deadbeat dad (and for the record these boys run away because sex is natural, being a father and/or husband is not, they have to be taught) and you won’t have any emotional baggage to carry around.
And let’s be honest, always worrying if you are pregnant is not the way to live. It doesn’t matter what you use, if you’re having sex and if God allows it, there is always a possibility of pregnancy. I don’t know about you but I rather have peace of mind than a night in sin that probably will last only 5 minutes anyway!
I’ve had those days of worrying if I was pregnant, what I’m going do, I’m too young, I’m not married, I have no money, what kind of weapon will my momma use to kill me lol what will people think etc. At the tender age of 15 I thought I was pregnant and I even contemplated abortion , which is not Gods will and we will get on that subject later.
All this stuff passes through your mind and it’s not the peace, joy, security, love, and abundant life God promises to his beautiful daughters.
Jesus Save ME
After I got saved at age of 16, I received His holy spirit and He began to convict me an show me that what I was doing was wrong. I knew it was wrong, I wasn’t indulging in it like I use to but I would still fall every now and then, still feeling as if I didn’t give it up he wouldn’t talk to me anymore (ladies you’re not alone if you ever felt that way). So I began to go to church faithfully and read what His word says:
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 “ Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. “ NIV
One of the biggest parts that stood out to me was the word “flee”. I would fall a lot because I was ignoring my triggers,anything that causes one to fall into sex. When God says flee, He means flee and not sit there and try to resist, something I did all to often and didn’t even realize it.
Ladies, our bodies are not ours they are Christ. How can we give something away that was never ours to give? That is deep to me 🙂 I just want to encourage you ladies and give you the truth because without knowledge we perish.
Condoms, birth control, abortion & plan B, might be able to save us from STDs and pregnancy but it can not save our souls, which is the most important and all we will have left on that faithful judgement day 🙂
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Romans 10:9 “If you acknowledge and confess with your lips that Jesus is Lord and in your heart believe (adhere to, trust in, and rely on the truth) that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.“