I am not a B*%#@!

I am not a B*%#@!

i am not a bWhats a Bad Chick? The worlds definition of a Bad Chick:

  • a woman  who can dress to kill and makes all the girls jealous
  • a woman with a big booty, small waist and big breast
  • a woman who knows how to bend it over and make it clap
  • a woman who knows how to get money from her men or who catches a b-ball or football player
  • a woman who is independent, owns the room when she walks in
  • a woman who is a Boss, can care less what others think and gets her way at any cost
  • a woman who can put it down in the bed and takes other women s men
  • a woman with “pretty girl swagg” she look better on the outside than inside
  • a woman that all the men want
  • a woman that aint scared to fight another chick anytime anywhere
  • and really now days the term that’s really used is BAD “B”!

To keep it all the way 100, its not a compliment to be known to identify with any of those characteristics listed. But before you decide you want to identify with the “B” word lets educate ourselves first.

Bitch = literally means a female dog. Also, did you know that slave masters called black women B’s because they were bred (caused to produce offspring ) like dogs and animals so the slave master could have more slaves??

But for some reason women today find this word to be a word of endearment, showing love and affection. Its gone so far as to allowing men to label us as  B’s like its a badge of honor. Ask yourself one question: ” Am I a dog that walks on 4 legs? Absolutely not! The B word is one of the most degrading words to label a person.
Let me show you how this word is not a word of love: Go home and call your momma a “B” and see how she responds. Yea I would probably be laid out on the floor lol Foreal though.

The “B” Word is bot another name for Women

I use to use the “B” word as a teen and allowed myself to be labeled as one, but God opened up my eyes to who I really was. When God created you, the “B” word was not in His description. When God made man he saw that it was not good for a certain kind of man to be alone. ( yes if you look at that scripture closely you will see he speaks of a certain kind of man and THAT man should not be alone, but we will talk about that later)  So he gave the first solution to the first problem = WOMAN, a man with a womb (wo-man) YOU 🙂 He made woman from the rib of a man. A rib has such an important function in the body, its strong and protects the most vital organs of the body. A cracked, abused and bruised rib hurts and a real man  would know to protect his rib because when its fractured or broke then he is in danger of his organs, fighting to stay alive.

With such creation as beautiful as us women, do you think its cool to belittle ourselves to such lowliness as a dog? Whether it was coming from a man or a woman, that is NOT your name!! Baby girl do you really know who you are? God created you in the image of Him, of God. So that means everything that you are, that you represent is a reflection of the most High, most loving, all supreme all sufficient God.  So when God made man and woman this is how he labeled us

  • Made in Gods image, Gen 1:27
  • He crowned us with glory( magnificence, great beauty) and honor (people of privilege) Psalm 8:5
  • The righteousness of God 2 Corinthians 5:21
  • Wonderfully and fearfully ( to be respected) made Psalm 139:14
  • With love, power and self control 2 Timothy 1:7
  • To rule and have dominion over this earth Gen 1:26
    and the list goes on…
You want something to identify with? Repeat after me, “My name is QUEEN, Beautiful, Virtuous, kingdom woman” 🙂
So lets Redefine the definition of a Bad Chick
  • a woman that seeks God everyday and not just on Sundays
  • a woman with a gentle and quiet spirit, humble in her ways
  • a woman that will celebrate another woman because she is secure in herself
  • a woman that can pray in the heavenly realms and watch things manifest in the earthly realm
  • a woman who is not afraid or ashamed to stand out and represent God
  • a woman that strives to be holy
  • a woman who desires to keep themselves, not having sex,  until marriage which is in obedience to Gods word
  • a woman who knows her beauty and knows that its not in makeup, long, weave and clothes but in her character as a human being, in the love she shows for all people and in the heart she has for God
  •  a woman who respects herself and doesn’t feel like she has to show off her body to get attention, because truth is when all we show off is “meat” all we will attract is “dogs”. Female dogs attract male dogs
     and the list goes on. So from this day forth know who you are!! A woman living for God? Now that’s a Bad Chick!

Britany Jones

Brittany Jones is an inspirational writer and speaker for young women. Her passion is to empower young women to live their best life by knowing their self-worth and the power of sexual Integrity.

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