Have you ever felt this way? Not being in a relationship or marriage, do you feel like you are missing out, as if you have the short end of the stick? Are you always wanting what others have? Are you bored with your life and feel like nothing exciting is happening where you are? Talk about YES!! But why is that?
I have felt this may times over in my earlier years, that was the main reason why I stayed in a relationship I was not suppose to be in for 4 years. I realized that the reason why I felt like I was missing out was not caused from me not being with someone, but it was solely because of me and my own thinking. I felt I was missing out on life because I chose not to live my life and do what I am called to do.
I have been on purpose this whole year and helping myself and other singles get to the bottom of those unwanted feelings and why we feel like a romantic relationship is the answer, when its not!
“Being lonely is not the absence of a man, its the absence of purpose”
You ever noticed when a car sits for a long period of time the battery dies? You would think that if it has not been used then the battery should be ready to go right? But thats not the case. It died becasue it has not been driven like its suppose to be. Its purpose is for that engine to be started and everything to be rotating . Why? Because that’s what it was created to do. It operates at its highest potential when its being used how its created to be used.
We are our most joyful and complete when we are doing what we are created to do. But instead we get like the car, sad and lifeless and wonder why we are stuck on the side of the road watching all the other cars drive by. The reason why we are drowned with these feelings is because our perception of where we are now has been distorted, made to look as if we are misfits!
” Being single is not an issue to be solved. It’s a calling!”
Tony Evans (such a great teacher) wants to help us with our perception on single hood. He exposes some serious stinking thinking and explains how we really have the best seat in the house, how we really are not suppose to be moping around waiting on a man but are to be MAXIMIZING our single hood. This teaching is about to change your whole way of thinking in less than 26 min. Its past time that your life begins