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My purpose in life is to mentor young women and a huge part of that is talking about sex! I always talk about it because it is so common in the world to think that sex is everything and you must do it to be liked, be cool, or be loved.

When God created sex, He created it as a gift that is to be exchanged between a husband and wife only and He did that for a reason because there are negative consequences that happen to us when we fail to wait until marriage. I talk a lot about the consequences of having sex outside marriage or sexual activity that is displeasing to the Creator all together. My heart beats for this very reason, to teach the truth about sex  and to expose the lies about it.

My prayer is that you may develop a heart for God that results in giving back to Him what is already His, your whole body,soul and mind. He wants you to live out your purpose and He needs to be able to use all of you, and having the right view on sex is crucial to this process. Why? Because sex involves EVERY part of your very being, the spiritual, soul ( heart and emotion) and physical part of you! And it needs to be whole and healthy to live out the wonderful purpose God put in your heart.

God created a standard or law for sex that is between a husband and wife only and anything below that standard is sexual sin! I hope me sharing my raw and real walk through my many post and videos encourages you to start or continue on your walk! Heaven is the goal and we all are invited to go 🙂

Why should you want to wait until marriage?

1. Because God said so!! It pleases God, your Creator!
2.It is beneficial to your  body, soul and spirit and you wont have to deal with negative soul ties.
3. You will avoid most of the pain/consequences that you’re probably experiencing right now or see others experience.
4.Jesus will reward those for what they did on earth when He comes back. You will be rewarded for your obedience.
5. If we can be rewarded then that means we can also be disqualified from the prize and miss out….and ultimately miss out on heaven!
6.Sin invites evil spirits and demonic torment and oppression!
7. You will have SOOOO much peace and confidence with yourself and God.

8.You wont have to worry about struggling being a single parent, tempted with abortion, STD’s and feeling used.

9.  You will have the privilege of giving yourself to your husband as an unwrapped gift and sharing the first time with him.

10.  It’s worth it.

11. You will have a better self esteem as you won’t be tempted to compare your body with anyone else