Single, Saved & NOT Having Sex! Is it possible?? VLOG

Single, Saved & NOT Having Sex! Is it possible?? VLOG

 Its kind of weird even asking that question but some may disagree with my answer. But check it,  if it was not so why would God REQUIRE His kids to wait until marriage for all that good stuff? The only way anyone would feel its not possible is because of the lack knowledge on how to live as a single and fleeing temptation.

See God equips all His kids with mad wisdom on how to live a holy and righteous life for Him, He’s tight like that, but you got to receive it. When Christ died on the cross He defeated ALL sin not some. So when we are struggling with certain sins we should seek God on how to see His freedom manifest in our lives.

Can you really be single saved and not having sex? Yes, and I’m going to share some tips on how to accomplish this! How did i get these tips? Straight from the Holy Spirit (He is a practical teacher) and He gave them to me because first, for the longest I was single (meaning not married), saved and falling into sin, simply because I just didn’t know how to live and second,  I was desperate for them and thirsting for righteous living. So whether you are single with or without a significant other in your life (esp. if you have someone) I believe these tips will help keep you until your Honey moon night 🙂

Me personally, I dated for 41/2 years ( the time when this was recorded) and it ended with no marriage simply because I had no clue how to date as a Christian and I was not being purposeful. But I thank God that through this whole experience I gained more than I lost, I learned righteous living as a single, and I have received life changing knowledge on How to Date as a Christian  (<— AWESOME post, life changing knowledge)

We as believers date to MARRY, that’s it! We shouldn’t waste time being tempted. ( I did for 4 yrs) If we know that this is who God says we are to marry then go forth. There is no “well lets wait and see”. Either we are moving toward marriage or I’m single. But never the less as I was learning how to keep myself I picked up some great habits that is so worth sharing to the world. Please watch as I share different sexual triggers and how to avoid them

This is my first Video blog! Excuse the shaky camera I was recording on the bed and forgot the principle of motion lol Watch both parts start to finish. You will be blessed !

If you cant see the video, click here –> Single Saved and not having sex

 So Ladies…You have an assignment to complete. Identify your triggers through the guidance of Gods spirit, take heed to them  and I promise you that your spiritual eyes will begin to open more because you are no longer held down by this sin. Your relationship with God  will become more intimate.You will become a more physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually healthier you. Once we eliminate sexual sin everything in our lives gets better because remember sex affects ever level of our existence. I will share a few more of my triggers

1. No kissing on the neck. Honestly I don’t kiss on the lips either anymore ( waiting until pastor says “you may now kiss the bride”). Kissing truly does lead to other things and avoiding it avoids many other temptations
2. I don’t lay up anymore…cuddling always seemed to backfire ;/ but what do you expect if his manhood is poking my flesh?

3.Advice: do not go to any empty parking lot at night talking bout “lets talk”  or into an empty house. I you are really serious about this walk as a single and dating don’t even find yourself alone with him,. This eliminates all triggers!!!!!! Always have accountable witnesses around because honestly temptation comes day and night!

For more wisdom on dating please visit this awesome post How to Date as a Christian

Alright ladies I hope you are now in the overflow of wisdom and ready to even share these tips with your girlfriends. until next time.. Stay encouraged…Brittany M. Jones

Britany Jones

Brittany Jones is an inspirational writer and speaker for young women. Her passion is to empower young women to live their best life by knowing their self-worth and the power of sexual Integrity.

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