The Girlfriend Trap: The Bait, What the Trap Creates and Your Way of Escape


While boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are the cultural norm, they do not accurately reflect your true value as a young woman. In fact, they are designed to set you up for emotional, physical and spiritual sabotage.


The Girlfriend Trap is the ultimate guide to help young women identify the lies culture has fed them about being a girlfriend, teach them how to break free from dead end relationships, learn their self-worth, and position themselves for the relationship that will bring them a lifetime of true love and commitment.


 Join me in the best girl talk that you will have all year as I share with you:


  1. What the girlfriend trap is
  2. The bait & what the trap creates
  3. The assignment of a girlfriend
  4. How to get out of the trap
  5. How to build your self-esteem and create standards
  6. The ultimate DATING strategy

and more…


This girl talk is packed with thought provoking conversation as well as writing exercises to help you set relational standards that change how you see yourself and how guys see you. You are not called to be a girlfriend! Find out the GREATNESS that you are created to rise to and change your relationship status forever. Don’t delay another second!

NaShara. N 24 years old



The Girlfriend Trap is a book that challenges the current views on dating and relationships. Through her transparency and encouragement, Brittany forces young women to see themselves as they truly are…queens! Trust me when I say, these concepts are life changing!

Amiri Bradford, 17 years old.



The Girlfriend Trap asked questions that I didn’t know to ask and gave me honest, unfiltered answers that I needed to hear. This book will arm young women with the knowledge they need to form the right kind of relationship. It’s definitely a must read.

Brittany. O 25 years old



This book is a great read! It opened my eyes to how much I am worth, and how I am worth the wait. It helped me understand what to do and what to not do when being pursued. Any single woman who has a desire to be married should read this book!

Jeffrey. K 27 years old



I initially thought there would be extreme viewpoints in this book and that some of the advice wouldn’t be very practical. I definitely have a new perspective on dating. I see nothing wrong with simply courting a potential wife. I believe not having the boyfriend title helps me hold myself accountable and set clear intentions.

Raina. F 15 Years old



This book really puts the steps of getting into a relationship into perspective, especially for a teen like myself. It taught me key points on how I should approach and maintain a relationship with someone on a deeper level. I would recommend this book to any young woman to help them better understand their self-worth and develop realistic expectations when entering a new relationship.

Daphney Jackson

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Revelatory


“Great and DEEP revelatory relational godly advice!” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾


⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Amazingly Practical Advice


“For a fresh and thoughtful perspective on relationships and dating, The Girlfriend Trap is it! Insightful, educational, and practical advice on how to avoid and/or escape the cultural trap of ‘girlfriend’. This book is a resource I wish I had as a young woman growing in my relationship with Christ. It’s certainly a must read for women’s small groups, book clubs, or personal development. If you’re ready to learn how to date well, don’t hesitate!”

Jane M Lacy, 64 years old

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Inspiration at its finest. It’s a great tool (w/ Bible) to use when raising (girls) teens.


“Enlightening perspective that could lead to deeper understanding for teens as well as parents. It’s a wise view of society today for anyone raising kids. It gives a starting place to have much needed discussions with your young children before society has a chance to taint their view of relationships.”