Young woman I want to empower you right now!
If God has already set you up (before the earth was even created) to be a wife, then you are a wife, point, blank, period! You are not created to be a girlfriend, baby momma or side piece but a WIFE! Just because you are not one yet in the physical does not mean you are not a wife. That time has not come yet.
Now its time to start acting like a wife and preparing to be one. A wife knows her price and refuses to settle for a lower status. She submits to her first husband (God), she begins to learn banking (budget & manage finances), she learns healthy eating so that she can nourish her husband and kids, she practices being obedient to God and living out what He has called her to do etc.
In order to bring this wife into the physical, your decisions today must start reflecting the wife you are. It’s not something you jump into, you prepare for it.
Wives don’t cheat on their husbands with a boyfriend, fling, random, father of child. Ponder on that for a moment! If that guy is not your husband now and you are engaging in sexual relations with him then you are cheating on your husband before he even comes, WOW!
If you live according to the low standards and mentality of a girlfriend, baby momma or side chick then a man will always receive you and treat you as a girlfriend, baby momma or side chick. No longer wear those titles no matter what background you have had ( I wore a couple of those titles), becasue to be with one of those women does not require much. It definitely does not require commitment and when you don’t work hard or pay a big price for something you won’t value it as much.
Young woman, I want to show you that there is so much more inside you than what you have settled for. Start acting like what you want to become, what you aspire to be, what you REALLY are.
For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. -Ephesians 2:10